如何克服上台或朗讀演講時的緊張感?
每當學員問我這個問題時,我總是好奇的也反問大家:「那你們都是如何克服的呢?」
「就多練習呀!」
「把逐字稿寫下來,讓自己跟著唸」
「就把台下當西瓜,假裝觀眾不會動」
我想克服緊張這件事情一定是許多人在練習完表達後,要呈現給聽眾對象時,最困難的大魔王!
所以今天想特別整理了克服緊張的方法,提供給大家😊
雖然我現在是一名專業講師、什麼樣的場合都培訓過,不過我自己也不是天生就很有自信地能夠侃侃而談,反而我是靠著非常大量的刻意練習,才換得今天的得心應手。
我在自己的書中《表達力決定你是誰》和線上課「魅力表達聲與課」甚至是YouTube頻道中都有提過,我為了克服自己的上台緊張,試過了許多瘋狂的方法,例如高中在全校班級中「巡迴念朗讀」、帶著自己的大提琴在台中火中站中央廣場快閃拉琴…
後來在成為專業講師的路上,也發現自己也很容易被底下的聽眾狀態影響了自己的授課呈現,因此在克服緊張的過程中,就更嚇了一番苦工!
這次我特別整理了幾點,和大家分享我自己在克服緊張的路上,真實鍛鍊過覺得很有用的三個方法,你覺得哪個方法最受用?
歡迎在底下留言和我分享唷!
一、語言的暗示
當你要上台演講時,其實身體會不自覺呈現幾種「緊張反應」:
1.身體會狂抖
2.心跳會加速
3.容易控制不住嘴角
4.腦袋思緒容易凌亂
5.因為太容易被這些「不可控」因素給影響,更會放大內在的負面感受
這時候我會把無法幫助我呈現正向狀態的文字,全部有意識的調整為正向語言的自我暗示。
例如:當緊張狀況產生時,容易有的「負面語言暗示」
「我好緊張啊!!!」
「我等等一定會表現不好」
「前面的人都好厲害喔……」
「等等忘詞怎麼辦…」
「大家都在看著我,他們一定會笑我…」
諸如此類的上述自我否定的負面語言暗示,我想應該是很多人都有的經驗因此
因此,透過有意識的正向語言引導,來暗示自己的潛意識狀態就相當重要!
我會這樣告訴自己:
「太好了!」
「我來了!」
「輪到我了!」
「就是現在!」
透過短短的句子,配上鏗鏘有力的重音強調,讓自己散發自信、也給自己加油打氣!
哪怕其實也沒有那麼好,不過認真想想,我們的認真準備,不就是要表現於現在嗎!?
透過正向、短的句子,就更能鼓舞自己有行動力!
二、姿態的調整
你要怎麼判斷這個人是否「有備而來」?
絕大多數都是看他的當下肢體語言的狀態。
例如,如果這個人他在你面前駝背、頭低低、眼睛大多時間都看地上、聲音說話吱吱嗚嗚的,你會覺得他有自信嗎?
反之,如果看到一位即將要上場的人,他是腰桿打直、抬頭挺胸、面帶笑容、眼睛發亮,會不會覺得這個人台風就比別人穩健許多?
因此我的刻意練習就是:
1.體態校正:在家中找一面牆壁,好好的「貼牆」練習,將自己的姿態校正成一直線的挺胸,並保持流暢的呼吸,不讓自己站著的時候不自在。
2.微笑練習:看著鏡子、面帶微笑、刻意地保持笑容且有流暢的呼吸,並計時至少三分鐘,讓自己臉部保持微笑且不僵硬。
3.手勢練習:看著鏡子、搭配自然的手勢,不讓自己姿態和四肢呈現僵硬狀態。
4.走路練習:讓自己在走路時,都保持挺胸自信狀態、腳步邁開而非拖在地上的笨重感。
5.坐姿練習:只坐在椅子的前1/3,腰桿打直,照著鏡子加上微笑、手勢練習自然的呈現。
三、模擬最真實的上台狀態
最後這一個,就是我覺得最最最重要,也是最容易忽視的關鍵!
我知道大家對於自己的上台表現都很重視!也都會認真地練習再練習!
可是最重要的關鍵,就是在這個第三步驟!
如果你的「練習」僅止於「坐在書桌前的彩排演練」而不是「1:1的真實模擬演練」那就是為何很容易面對舞台或是人多的時候依然容易失控的原因。
那該如何「1:1的真實模擬演練」?
當我自己在經歷了朗讀比賽、演講比賽、千人講座培訓、TEDx的國際級的分享後,我能和你很有自信的說,接下來這個方法一定會對你克服緊張超級受用!
「1:1的真實模擬演練」方法如下:
1.彩排空間選擇:把彩排的場景拉到你家的客廳,因為客廳中就有電視、沙發區,或是找一個空間,可以製造出一個演講的區域來做模擬。
2.場地佈置:把你房間的所有娃娃都放到沙發的椅子上,記得要放開一點,左邊、中間、右邊都要有娃娃。這個目的是假裝有很多觀眾坐在底下觀看我們,所以記得也可以把娃娃放在前後排、不同區域,這樣可以更強化我們「視覺接觸」的視線點,不會集中在正中間,而是知道要去照顧到每一位觀眾的眼神交流。當然,最好的做法就是邀請家人朋友們坐在底下真實的聽你演練。
3.開始練習:你自己站在電視牆這一面,可以把你的簡報投射在電視畫面中,並面向底下的沙發觀眾們,每一次演練時,都要把底下的觀眾放在心上,同時也讓自己的聲音能傳遞給底下的聽眾聽見,這樣更能全面性的去鍛鍊自己的表達力。
透過以上這三個明確的方式,一定能幫助自己調諧上台緊張的心情,更掌握克服緊張的方式!
對我來說,練習的過程,就是要讓自己能夠立刻沈浸在自己的演講說話狀態中,而非被外界的狀態干擾。
當我們太容易把外在的聲音放大,忽略了自己也能掌握的細節,反而容易在關鍵時刻失了信心!
以上這三個方法提供給大家,希望對大家也有幫助喔!
想要學習更多的說話技巧嗎?歡迎購買我的書籍《表達力決定你是誰》
或是透過我的一對一諮詢,快速精準掌握自己的說話狀態,並有效提升表達力!

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